Most sellers compare offers. Almost nobody compares net proceeds — what actually lands in the account after everything is deducted. The gap between those two numbers on a San Diego house is routinely $60,000 or more, and it is where nearly every regret in this process lives.
Here is every line item, what it typically runs, and who customarily pays it in San Diego County.
| Line item | Typical San Diego cost | Customarily paid by |
|---|---|---|
| Listing-side commission | 2.5–3% traditional · 1% flat here | Seller |
| Buyer-agent compensation | 0–3%, negotiable since the 2024 NAR settlement | Negotiated |
| County documentary transfer tax | $1.10 per $1,000 of sale price | Seller (customary) |
| Escrow fee | Base fee plus a per-thousand charge; commonly split | Typically split |
| Owner’s title policy | Scales with price; roughly 0.3–0.5% | Seller (customary) |
| Natural hazard disclosure report | ~$100–$150 | Seller |
| County recording & misc. fees | Few hundred dollars | Split |
| Termite / pest work | $0–$5,000+, deal-dependent | Negotiated |
| Pre-sale repairs & prep | $0–$50,000+ — the real variable | Seller |
| Staging & photography | $1,500–$6,000 | Seller |
| Buyer credits / repair requests | Commonly 0.5–2% after inspection | Seller |
| Holding costs while listed | Often $3,000–$6,000 per month | Seller |
| Capital gains tax | Often $0 on a primary residence — IRC §121 | Seller |
Customary allocations, not rules. Every line above is negotiable in the purchase agreement, and local custom varies across San Diego County.
Illustration only — round numbers chosen to show the shape of the math, not a quote and not current market data. Take a San Diego house that sells for $900,000 and needs $25,000 of deferred maintenance a buyer will notice.
| Traditional listing (3% listing side) | Usually nets mostFlat 1% listing | As-is cash sale | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Sale price | $900,000 | $900,000 | ~$675,000 |
| Listing-side commission | −$27,000 | −$9,000 | $0 |
| Buyer-agent compensation | −$22,500 | −$22,500 | $0 |
| Transfer tax ($1.10/$1,000) | −$990 | −$990 | −$990 |
| Escrow, title, fees | −$5,500 | −$5,500 | Often absorbed by buyer |
| Repairs & pre-sale prep | −$25,000 | −$25,000 | $0 |
| Staging & photos | −$3,000 | −$3,000 | $0 |
| Buyer credits after inspection | −$9,000 | −$9,000 | $0 |
| Holding costs (3 months @ $4,500) | −$13,500 | −$13,500 | −$1,500 |
| Approximate net | ~$793,500 | ~$811,500 | ~$672,500 |
| Time to cash | ~3–4 months | ~3–4 months | 7–21 days |
Three honest conclusions from that table:
Holding costs. A San Diego house sitting on the market still bills you every month: mortgage interest, property taxes, insurance, utilities, HOA, and maintenance. At $4,500 a month, an extra 90 days on market costs $13,500 — more than a full percentage point on a $900,000 sale, spent invisibly.
This is why "time to close" belongs in the cost column rather than the convenience column, and why the gap between a cash offer and a listing is always narrower than the headline prices suggest.
Capital gains tax, on a primary residence. IRC section 121 generally excludes up to $250,000 of gain for a single filer and $500,000 for joint filers, provided you owned and lived in the home as your main residence for at least two of the previous five years.
Capital gains tax on an inherited house, usually. Inherited property typically receives a stepped-up basis to fair market value at the date of death, so the taxable gain on a reasonably prompt sale is often minimal. This surprises people constantly, and it changes whether selling quickly is expensive or free.
Property tax reassessment, if you are only selling. Reassessment lands on the buyer. It matters to you only in the reverse direction — when you go to buy again — where Proposition 19 rules on transferring a base-year value may apply.
Tax treatment depends on facts this page cannot know. Nothing here is tax advice; confirm with a CPA before you rely on it.
The listing side is the one large cost that is genuinely discretionary without giving up anything. Full MLS exposure, professional photography, and licensed representation do not require 3%.
The 1% listing →If the repair list is large enough that it eats the price advantage of listing, an as-is cash sale stops being a discount and starts being arithmetic.
Sell as-is →Every month on market is real money. Price correctly at launch; the largest holding-cost bills are always paid by sellers who started too high and corrected too late.
Compare net proceeds →Send the address. You get both numbers — the cash offer and the estimated net from a 1% listing — side by side, with the deductions itemized, so you can see the gap instead of guessing at it.
Get both numbersFigures are typical ranges and customary San Diego County allocations as of 2026, provided for comparison. Actual costs depend on your property, your contract, and your service providers. The worked example uses round illustrative numbers and is not a quote, an appraisal, or current market data. Nothing on this page is legal, tax, or financial advice.